Use your strengths!

 

If you paid attention to successful guys with girls, then you saw that they often have some bright distinctive feature. It is this trait that gives them a special charm and helps to seduce girls.

“The fact that it is a little fat is okay. But he plays the guitar so mentally that my heart sings! " - a typical example of a situation when a girl begins to like a guy who knows how to show a strong side. Moreover, we are talking not only about skills, but also about character traits.

This trait is so clearly manifested in a guy that all his friends, when meeting him, immediately associate his talent with someone or something. I have a friend who knows how to suck an interesting joke out of thin air. Every time I meet him, this bright feature involuntarily comes to mind in my head. And all the shortcomings pale against the background of such a difference.

You may not believe it, but you also have such a bright trait. You just don't know about it yet. ;)

Now I will give you some tips on how you can identify your strengths and learn how to skillfully show them to the opposite sex.

Learning to use our strengths

You may be surprised, but often your strengths are those to which you are so accustomed that you have ceased to notice them or consider them strong.

To determine them, you can go in 2 ways:

Ask all of your good friends what is in your behavior or life that they consider unusual. The main thing is to ask them to take this request very seriously.

Pay attention to those moments in your behavior that you are used to and that do not seem special to you. Most likely, it is in them that your strengths lie. Perhaps you are so fond of communicating with friends and telling some interesting moments from your life that over time you began to do it very interestingly.

After a long analysis and / or questioning of your close friends, you will discover those strengths that you did not notice before.

But that's not all!

Perhaps they will not seem strong to you, since they do not give you big bonuses when communicating with girls.

Therefore, it is important to learn how to manifest these moments in your behavior in such a way that your attractiveness increases.

As an example, let's say that one of your strengths is your ability to tell interesting stories. For this skill to become a magnet for girls, it is enough to learn how to add situations that increase your male attractiveness to these stories. Among the seducers, such stories were called PS-kami.

This can be a situation when girls were "sticking" to you, or when you were at an event that "mere mortals" are not allowed to attend. PS-ku is distinguished from ordinary boasting by one very important point - in your story you mention such situations by chance, and the emphasis is on something completely different.

By the way, you can use PS-ki not only when your strong point is the ability to tell interesting stories. Because status-raising stories were invented for self-promotion, you can mention in them the very situations in which you showed one of your other strengths.

Another example? You are welcome!

You are an athlete, but you don’t want to talk about it directly, and your new acquaintance may not ask about it.

What to do?

When in your conversation it comes to purposefulness, about achieving success, weave the following structure into your story: “Yes, perseverance is important. My coach always says to me: “You have to run while you have strength. And when you run out of strength - pack up and run on. " Most likely, having heard the mention of the coach, the girl herself will ask what kind of sport you do. And then all you have to do is tell her everything. :)

You can show your strengths not only with words, but also with actions.

If you are a dancer, then pay her a one-time lesson and teach her to dance. If you are engaged in skydiving (or any other extreme sport), then be sure to organize a date so that she will take part in it too.

If you have many acquaintances, then arrange a date in the place where everyone knows you, and where they will actively greet you and ask how you are doing.

In fact, you can come up with many ways to show your strengths. You may not be able to do it right away. Some of your attempts may be too explicit, and instead of increasing your own attractiveness, you will receive a decrease in it. But in the future you will learn how to do it easily and naturally.

Add "peppercorn", or the basis of your charm

Once you've identified your strengths and learned to use them, it's important to sometimes show the complete opposite of your image.

For example, you know that you can joke well and do it often. And if at first the girl likes it, then she may soon get bored. To prevent this from happening, you can one day start to behave seriously, talk about the meaning of life and talk on such topics as which only adults speak. No jokes - just hardcore. :)

If you are very kind and polite, then sometimes you need to be tough and a little arrogant (do not confuse it with anger and resentment towards the world around you).

If you are used to behaving like a kind of male, then sometimes reveal your weak features and immediately hide them, so that the girl has a desire to "unravel your secret."

This "peppercorn" in behavior is the basis of your charm.

About your views on the world

If your view of some things can be characterized by the word "non-standard", then think about how you can broadcast this look in communication with a girl.

Perhaps you will do this in a conversation directly, just by talking about this topic. Or maybe you can find a way to show it through actions, so that the girl has a desire to find out why you did this.

But be careful: you should not show those beliefs that will show your resentment towards anything (towards the world around you, towards girls), insecurity or other unattractive qualities.

"I already know it!"

You have already read several dozen articles and probably noticed that you really liked some of them, and you easily perceived the information. And the other part of the articles, despite reading, was not perceived by you in any way.

It may seem strange to you, but the articles that are easily perceived by you are your untapped potential. If you understand that in communicating with girls you are already partially using one of the tips / tricks, then I advise you to pay special attention to it.

Of course, you shouldn't forget about working on your weak points.

If you concentrate on "pumping" those skills that you have partially developed, and bring your skills to the ideal level, then you will make a giant leap towards beautiful female bodies. :)

This is a simple yet very powerful secret of rapid growth that many men are unaware of.

By learning to see all the strengths in yourself and show them to girls, you open up a real part of you for them. Because strengths are a part of your being, which until now the girls have not been able to see in you.