Despite the abundance of articles about dating girls, it is difficult to develop this skill. If you are serious about getting results, then use this particular model of developing your dating skill.
This article may conflict somewhat with other articles on our blog (for example, the article "How to meet a girl"). The reason is that each of our readers needs something different. Get his knowledge, which would allow him to act as comfortably as possible.
And this article is another point of view. And this point of view is suitable for those who are tuned in to the serious practice of dating and feel that they can develop much faster.
Here are the exercises that will allow you to quickly learn how to get to know girls. You can consider this a full-fledged dating training, which we decided to give you for free. ;)
Here we go?
Contextual dating skill
One of the important skills that will allow you to get acquainted easily, naturally and interestingly. Thanks to this skill, you will be able to come up with individual phrases for getting to know each individual situation.
It is better to start practicing it with training "on cats".
To do this, include any excerpt from a film or any other video where a girl appears in the frame. Watch part of this excerpt, pause the video, and come up with phrases for dating for each of the following parameters:
Her appearance
Facial expression
Behavior
Environment
Each of the phrases you come up with should relate only to one of these parameters (a little later you can easily combine them, but for now, learn how to generate phrases for each individual parameter). Such training on cats should last at least 3 days.
What are the advantages of such training?
Once you start practicing this skill right away in real conditions, you can quickly "merge", having received a couple of rejections. But by practicing this skill in the suggested way, you can quickly learn the contextual approach.
Then, when you do this little workout, you can feel free to move on to real practice on the street. And very soon you will learn to feel which of the phrases is best to use in each specific case.
Dating "without words"
I will not tire of repeating that the most important thing when meeting a girl is your confidence that you have the right to do so.
Of course, you will now think that you are so sure of this. But only by successfully completing this exercise in practice, you can feel what real confidence in yourself and your rights to a girl is. ;)
The essence of the exercise is that you approach the girl and begin to silently examine her for 20 seconds, without looking away. And only after that you start communicating.
Try not to make it easier for yourself by viewing it from the side or at a distance. Get as close as possible, and make sure that she cannot miss you (as you understand, it is better to approach from the front).
Not every guy can withstand such a test - after all, it is not possible to start a conversation right away (even if the stranger herself tries to do it earlier).
Non-verbal training
Your facial expression should literally make the girl want you to approach her.
If from the very beginning you look at a stranger correctly, then even if she was not initially determined to get to know each other, she will have a predisposition to get to know each other.
The essence of the exercise is that you should not get to know a girl until you see explicit invitations to meet you (hair straightening, smiling, keeping your eyes on you for more than 2 seconds). In doing so, you should try to get these invitations through visual contact and the correct facial expression.
I will not explain to you exactly how you should look at her and smile. It is important that you find the perfect one for yourself. Do this exercise with 10 girls.
Take them in quantity!
When you do all the above exercises, the next 5 days of your life will be rich in new acquaintances. You will take the number of girls! ;)
This exercise will be in 2 parts.
First part. 2 days in a row you meet 10 girls a day. Only those acquaintances in which you can get phone numbers are counted.
If on the first day of this exercise you make, for example, only 7 acquaintances, and you want to postpone the remaining 3 until tomorrow, then I do not advise you to do this. Chances are high that tomorrow you won't be able to finish this exercise due to the even greater burden of responsibility.
The second part of. Unlike the first part, you will not only have to meet the same number of girls every day, but also continue to communicate with them for at least 10 minutes. The second part of this exercise lasts 3 days in a row, so I advise you to choose for her weekend and the day before this weekend (traditionally: Friday, Saturday and Sunday).
The first part of the exercise is needed so that you begin to enjoy dating, completely getting rid of manifestations of fear and anxiety. The second serves to ensure that you begin to enjoy communication, and you will not strive to "rather take a number and hide out of sight."
"Inflexible" dating
If you have ever watched how dominant men act, then you probably noticed that they impose their rules on a girl.
In ordinary life, this model does not work with all girls, since the total imposition of their own rules can lead to psychological resistance.
However, a girl should know 2 things about you:
Sometimes you still impose your own rules of communication.
You are so confident in yourself that you do not need to prove it. She will feel this trait in your behavior, although outwardly you will behave in the opposite way.
The only way to learn to communicate in such a model is to first learn to dominate the girl “on the brink of a foul”.
It is for this purpose that "inflexible" acquaintances serve.
The essence of this exercise boils down to the fact that when you approach a girl, you begin to impose your own rules. You can:
Do not let her pass if she wants to leave (and in no case follow her if she still escaped).
Lead the conversation in the direction you want (if she tries to seize the initiative by asking you provocative questions, then you do not let her do it).
Offer her to meet on a certain day, and make sure that she agrees exactly to your terms (in case of refusal, you ask what she is doing, and you make her postpone her affairs to another time; you do not agree to her terms no way).
After doing this exercise at least 20 times, you will develop the skill of dominance. And this skill will give your image more "male". As a result, girls will be much less likely to want to refuse you. ;)
All of the above exercises are aimed at developing a specific "micro-skill". Every micro-skill you develop with their help is extremely important when meeting any girl. Therefore, the more responsibly you approach the better.
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