How to meet a girl on the street

Even just a pretty girl is approached by about 5-10 guys on the street every day. How do you stand out from their background? Now I will tell you about how you can not only get a number, but also knock yourself good bonuses for future meetings.

The street is the place where all the girls put on a protective shell and fall into a trance. Each of them seeks to get to the desired place as soon as possible, with the exception of those who are just walking and are initially set to get to know each other.

This complicates acquaintance in such a place. How to meet a girl on the street, so that she does not just give her number, guided by the principle "if only to be left behind," but is tuned in to continue communication?

To get her interested in your persona, it is important to be very different from the street molesters.

As you roll up, you roll back

In meeting on the street, how you approach a girl plays a big role. If you roll up correctly, then you roll back gracefully with the phone number "in your pocket". If it's wrong, she'll blow you away as quickly and ruthlessly as all the other guys.

An important tip: in order not to frighten her off, in any case, do not fly too fast and do not come up from behind. Worse, don't yell at her from behind. Such an approach will immediately put you in the position of "stalking" and take away all chances of successfully taking the number from you.

In extreme cases, catch up and only then start communicating. If you caught up with her from behind, then try to position your body in the direction of movement, and not towards her, otherwise you will be in a position dependent on her. Overtake her literally by 5-10 centimeters, so that she has the feeling that she is following you, and not you.

It is best to approach the girl from the front to block her movement. But it is important to do this not directly in front of her, but a little to the side, placing the body at an angle of 45 degrees and only half blocking her path. So she will feel the opportunity to leave (but will not leave), which will automatically relieve her tension and allow her to start communication more easily without closing or running away.

Why is it important to block her movement?

Because when you follow her, you automatically put yourself in a position dependent on her and accept her rules of the game. Instead of setting your own rules.

And by blocking her path, you will make her accept your rules and start talking to you. The rest depends on your confidence and experience.

The flow of her thoughts before meeting

Do you know what a girl thinks about when she feels that they will approach her now?

She is ready to turn off some guys right away. And when they begin to move in her direction, she thinks: "Oh my God, what kind of sucker approaches me." :)

She cannot immediately assign others to any category and thinks: “Oh, now she will begin to get acquainted. Let's see what kind of guy. "

Be that as it may, she already established her own rules of the game even before you open your mouth. And I'm already ready to either kick you off, or start comparing with someone, checking for confidence, and so on.

Therefore, it is important from the very beginning to take away control of the situation from her, knocking the ground out from under her feet.

How do you meet a girl on the street if she initially prepares to rate you? How to take this control away from her?

You need to ask her a question or say any phrase that she does not expect to hear from you. This question or phrase should scare and shock her a little.

For example, you can approach her with a completely serious (but not menacing) expression on your face and say: "You stole!" And when her eyes begin to round up to the size of 5 ruble coins, add: “You just stole my heart. You smiled so beautifully that now I am chained to you forever. This means that you must take full responsibility for me. Therefore, we will have to marry each other. "

On the one hand, this is a compliment. And they compliment her several times a day. On the other hand, very few people can shock her like that. So, you automatically stand out from the huge crowd of street molesters.

When you scare a girl a little, then she completely loses control over the situation and, even if she wanted to kick you off, she forgets about it, and easily makes contact.

The principle of the difference in emotions is at work here: the difference between positive and negative states is greater than the difference between positive and normal.

Either you give emotion, or you leave ... with a number

When meeting, it is important to give the girl an emotion. Conventionally, acquaintance can be represented as a parabola. If at the very beginning her emotional background increases, then after passing through the peak, emotions begin to subside.

That is why all seducers advise not to delay acquaintance with a girl so that you have the opportunity to leave at the peak of her emotions.

If you don’t know at all how to give her emotion (although you can already give her at least some emotion, because in the previous paragraph of the article I gave you the “fear-relief” scheme and even gave you a specific example :)), then it’s better right away take her phone number under the pretext of amusement. In this case, you just say that now you have to go, but because you liked her, you do not want to miss the opportunity to continue communication. Therefore, you propose to exchange contacts in order to meet later.

As soon as you begin to feel that you have nothing to say to her, you immediately suggest that we meet later.

In general, the acquaintance should last 5-15 minutes, so that the girl has time to somehow assess your confidence and agree to a further meeting.

However, you will achieve the greatest result precisely when you try to translate each acquaintance into a date. Those. you are not trying to exchange numbers and dump, but ask her if she has 1-2 hours of time. If there is, invite you to a cafe or for a walk.

As a rule, after such a quick date, the girl hardly resists further meetings and is seduced much faster.

The fact is that even just a pretty girl is approached by at least 5-10 people per day on the street (in more or less populated cities). And if your acquaintance is too banal, then she may not even remember you (and reminding her of where you met is to show self-doubt). And if you go on a date right away, you will immediately be remembered by her and will cause a pretty good level of trust.

As you can see, it's pretty easy to meet a girl on the street. And for this it is not necessary to invent some ingenious schemes. It's enough just to do it like no one else does. By evoking unusual emotions in her, you will stand out from the general background and will be remembered so strongly that sex will remain only a matter of time.