What if she doesn't want to?

 What if she doesn't want to?

It would seem that you have almost seduced her: she almost always agrees to meetings with you, happily maintains a conversation, hugs you and lets you touch her ass. But with sex, something does not go well: either she says that it is "too early", or that she is "not like that."

 Or maybe you've already done this with her, but for some reason she still doesn't want to (or this has begun to happen just recently).

 What if a girl doesn't want sex?

 Let's first try to figure out the main reasons.

Why doesn't she want

 There may be several reasons for this "I do not want". The reason may be "red" days, lack of the desired mood, her unshaven in the most intimate place, not the best panties on her, etc.

 And it's good if this is so - usually such reasons arise in the worst case only once a month, and the rest of the time they do not bother you.

 However, if she does not want more than once in a row, then the matter is most likely in the lack of interest in having sex with you.

 Perhaps lately you have not been behaving sufficiently confidently, courageously, unavailable, or you are not emitting sexual desire.

 If sexual desire still blows from you, then this does not mean that she will want you. You must always be the best man for your beloved. When she notices that you have ceased to defend your position in front of other people, you allow disrespect from someone else, then you should not be surprised that she does not want sex.

 If you have not had this yet, then to the above reasons, the following is also added:

Her mistrust of you

Doubt that you are the guy she would like to date

 How can these obstacles be overcome?

 What to do if a girl doesn't want sex

If you are already alone

 When both of you are at your house or at her house, and at the same time, as they say, she breaks down, then a simple piece of advice will help you: do not rush.

 The experience of all seducers suggests that it is much more effective to take two steps forward and one back. And this is all for a reason. The nature of the girl makes her prove her inaccessibility. This desire to increase her worth suggests that she really likes you.

 Did you think her resistance was bad? ;)

 In fact, this is very good! But this does not mean that you need to adapt to her rules of the game.

 In this case, you can (and should) knock the soil out from under her feet in order to achieve her goal. When you will not only approach her (in the emotional and bodily sense of the word), but also distance yourself from her, then she will definitely like this game.

She will think: “Why did he move away from me? Did he really dislike me so quickly? " Her natural female curiosity will play a role, and you will be able to seduce her much faster than if you were going forward all the time.

By the way, sometimes it is useful to "freeze" completely. This technique allows you to further knock the soil out from under her feet. And, perhaps, she will already seek you, and not you.

If you offered her, and she ...

 You all lead and lead the relationship to sex, invest your strength, and she deliberately delays this moment. Well, well, in this case, you should analyze what mistakes you made, that she refuses you to have sex.

After all, she is also a person who wants to do THIS. And this means that she is doing this with someone else or is waiting for you to show her your inner real man, who “will just come and take”.

 Unfortunately, the usual behavior for all guys leads to the fact that the girl loses interest in the guy. Or this interest never arises.

 What mistakes a guy usually makes:

Overestimates the importance of the girl and shows the neediness.

Now you can say that it is somehow incomprehensibly said. What does it mean to "overestimate the importance"? This means that by your behavior you show that you really like her.

Logically, you can assume that if you show it to her, then she should love you. But the harsh reality dictates its own rules. If a girl feels (and she, believe me, feels) your excessively good attitude towards her, then she concludes that you are simply not in demand from the opposite sex. And this immediately makes her think that something is wrong with you.

    2. Believes that she already belongs to him.

At some points, he begins to overly control the girl's behavior, asking where and when she went. The latter begins to feel that she already belongs to him. As a consequence: there is a desire to "defend" and distance himself.

    3. Behaves like a typical "nice" guy.

 And this is not sexy. Girls are more turned on by your insolence, the ability to say "no", to play a trick on her and occasionally show a lack of interest in her.

And if you:

you are constantly inferior to her in something (even in the choice of the place and time of the meeting)

trying to guess and satisfy her desires

If you always behave well with her (including in those moments when she behaves disrespectfully), then do not expect that she will throw herself on your neck and say that she wants you.

  In the vast majority of cases, it is enough to eradicate these errors, and then you are unlikely to hear the word "no" from her anymore.