attractive

 he does lose some of his sex appeal

without lucifer's style

but that doesn't mean to wear a suit all

the time after all anyone can wear a

suit and it doesn't automatically make

you a sex symbol

the trick is no matter what your style

is focus on wearing the right fit for

your body type

and add at least one stylish accessory

in lucifer's case

he has a few things that separate him

from looking like your average working

suit

a tight fit a pocket square rings a

watch cufflinks a five o'clock shadow

people may not notice it consciously but

when you add a few little touches like

that

it will change how someone perceives you

now that said

you don't need to copy lucifer's

particular style to be attractive

instead apply those two rules to

whatever your own personal style is and

this doesn't have to be excessive

for example if you normally wear

collared shirts it's as easy as throwing

a 10

pair of suspenders over top before

heading to the bar i want to talk about

the episode that you're shooting now

because you look very dapper

the second thing you can steal from

lucifer to become more attractive is his

mindset that flirting is about having

fun

lucifer doesn't take things too

seriously when he flirts he's playful

and focuses on amusing himself

here's a quick example but if this

little clue thing of yours doesn't pan

out

these are going back on and they're

gonna stay on is that a promise

i know some people will comment that

this only works because lucifer is a

scripted tv show so here's two quick

examples of craig ferguson being playful

in the same way

interpreting something non-sexual as

sexual i'm southern we're handsy we're

handsy in the bib face

i've been south of the mason decks and i

know what you're talking about

oh yeah i i kind of dropped the ball

craig

i don't think anyone would mind just

pick it up keep going

now sexualizing a conversation does run

the risk of seeming creepy but it's also

super easy to be playful without being

sexual this can be

especially attractive when you first

meet someone most people dread the

standard boring small talk like

where are you from and what do you do so

a good trick when flirting is to answer

someone's first small talk question

playfully

and at least 25 percent of the small

talk questions after that

here's another quick example from craig

this time messing around with the often

asked where are you from

i'm from scotland jersey

if you can make someone laugh by saying

something playful and unexpected

they'll instantly like you more for

making the conversation more fun

this will get annoying if you never take

anything seriously but most people go

too far the other way they take too many

things too seriously

so being around someone that makes

conversation playful is a welcome break

from the norm

and it can even create a sense of uh i

wish i could be like that

how long have i been out

three years what

you're such an ass thank you

as a quick side note if someone is

flirting by fake insulting you like that

and your mind goes blank

a smiling thank you is an easy go-to

response

this can even be an attractive comeback

when someone really is trying to insult

you

you are a mockery of everything divine

thank you you got some balls on you pal

oh thank you very much but they're

really quite average

when you respond like that you show that

you're confident in who you are and you

aren't affected by them

don't do this if someone's giving you

genuine feedback it's just a nice one if

your mind goes blank while someone is

teasing you while flirting

it's playful and it also shows you

aren't particularly sensitive and that

you have confidence in yourself

that unshakeable confidence is another

attractive aspect of lucifer's attitude

the quickest way he projects that

confidence is by approaching people

without hesitation

whether they're beautiful women or

dangerous criminals lucifer this is a

ruthless drug lord with who knows how

many armed thugs

you can't just walk in there with your

three-piece suit and say

hello drug dealers i would never

do that i'm young mike song

in your own life avoid the dangerous

criminal part and just steal the

fearless approach part

approaching someone you're attracted to

without hesitation is a

very quick way to display attractive

confidence the mistake

most people make when they see someone

they're attracted to is they go

stand near them and say nothing hoping

that some circumstance will

magically lead to them talking to each

other by contrast

lucifer walks right up and starts a

conversation

oh hello again my little cannonball

sorry i didn't introduce myself earlier

lucifer

morningstar one of the reasons people

hesitate before approaching is because

they can't think of anything to say

spontaneity is nice but if you find

yourself at a bar or social event and

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a good go-to phrase is hey i don't think

i've met you yet

and then introduce yourself this sub

communicates that you either

already know most of the people there or

have met a bunch of people already

so it's a nice way to establish that

you're social and not a creep

having that in your back pocket will

help you approach someone with

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