Self -development is an independent process of self-improvement, determined by the goal, which is realized mainly by acquiring new and developing existing skills, as well as by overcoming bad habits.
Thus, self-development (self-improvement) is the path that leads you to a happy and healthy life.
Self-improvement helps you develop your personality in such a way that even the people around you become happier.
If you still decide to change your "I" for the better, you should be prepared for various debilitating physical and emotional stress.
In order to walk your path and begin to live the life of your dreams, the life that you are proud of and enjoy, you need to become the best version of yourself, the person that you should be.
The starting point of self-development is the choice made.
Then you need to follow the steps below, which will contribute to self-improvement.
As you move forward, your priorities and ways of personal development may change.
For example, at first you decide to learn one type of activity, but as you deepen and gain professionalism, it is quite possible that you will realize that in fact you have a passion for something else.
When you embark on the path of self-development, you will notice that people who are dissatisfied with themselves will confront you, dissuade you from your plans, or try to confuse you. Don't let them.
Decide what you want to achieve in life
What do you want from life? Perhaps this is one of the most important questions that every person should ask himself.
All people want something, but only a few have conscious goals and make meaningful plans.
However, the reality is that if you do not decide for yourself what you want to achieve in life, someone else will do it for you.
There are always people around you who will try to impose their own vision on this issue.
But it is up to you to decide in which direction to move, and whether it is worth putting into practice the advice of others.
These people will include everyone around, but the greatest influence on you will be, firstly, your parents, whose advice, most often, is based on their own experience.
Secondly, your friends, many of whom do not know what they want at all, and very often can only lead you astray.
In general, of course, you need to listen to the words of your environment. But do not forget that only you are the person who has the right to lead your life, and therefore no one should be allowed to reshape your fate according to someone else's scenario. This is your choice and your life.
If you really do not want to enter the university for the specialty proposed by your parents, having well-founded reasons and sincere unwillingness to engage in this type of activity, then you should not do this.
If you know what your tendencies are, and you can imagine at least in general terms how you will be able to realize them, then be sure to move in a direction close to your heart.
It is very important to understand that “We become what we think about”, and this expression is so true that it is even difficult to imagine.
This is the fundamental secret of the universe, which can also be described in other words: “In order to receive something, you must first give.”
The basis in this case is the focus of your attention. If you focus on negative thoughts, you will get negative results. By focusing on positive thinking, you will achieve positive results, at least sooner or later.
So come very responsibly and find out for yourself what you want to achieve in life, what do you want to do, who do you want to become?
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